Make conversation, take her out to dinner, go for drinks. Spend as long as you want getting to know your prospective partner. There’s no time limit for setting up a one night stand.If she purses or licks her lips, touches her hair or body suggestively or emphasizes her erogenous parts to make sure you notice them, it's almost certainly a sure bet. Coy eye contact, smiling, raised eyebrows and a willingness to flirt in an overtly sexual manner are all good signs. Pay attention to see if she's returning your interest.No one wants to get together with someone who’s just looking for an easy score. It’s one thing to have a fun fling, but no one wants to feel like they’re being used.
Put her at ease by treating her like a person with a mind of her own, not just a sexual object. This will give you just enough insight into who you’re with to make your temporary connection memorable.
When you find a suitable partner, make an effort to learn her name and find out a bit about her.